I have control issues

I have control issues

On the outside, it may fool you. I’m the easy going parent. I enjoy being more spontaneous and love adventure. I’m not a clean freak and I’m okay with leaving the dishes in the sink for a day or two. But on the inside, oh man, on the inside I need to be in control of...

Are you Empowering or Enabling?

Are you Empowering or Enabling?

Let me go straight to the point. Enabling is doing life FOR someone. Enabling however often comes disguised as supporting. Let me paint the picture for you. Doing the homework for your children is enabling them. Supporting would look like sitting with them and...

Setting Boundaries and saying No

Setting Boundaries and saying No

“If You Give a Mouse a Cookie” was read every night as a bedtime story at our household this past week. The author, Laura Numeroff, describes how this cute boy offers a cookie to a mouse (in case you haven’t guessed by the name yet, ha!) and how the boy responds to...

5 practical ways to get over a phone addiction 

5 practical ways to get over a phone addiction 

“I don’t like feeling bad, I want to feel good. And I always feel good when I am eating. So let’s go eat some ice cream and a bag of chips.” Yours may sound a bit different but I’m sure a variation of the thought above may have crossed your mind in some point or you...

Brain is Powering Down

Brain is Powering Down

Left in the car 5 miles and a boat ride away was my phone charger and there was no way I was leaving that line to go get it.   It’s not any line.   I’m standing in line for the Peter Pan ride at Disney World and I realized that I left my phone cord in the...

13 Tips for Better Sleep

13 Tips for Better Sleep

Sleep is often the first thing to suffer when stresses are mounting at home and work. The common most frequent recommendation is to develop a sleep routine. To go to bed and wake-up at roughly the same time each day. Agreed this is a key to developing, healthy sleep habits, but easier said than done. Here is a list of practical tried and true tips to help with falling asleep and getting the rest your body and mind desperately needs.

Should Statements

Should Statements

I came home from work later than expected. I was greeted with questions of “what’s for dinner?” I lost it. “You should have taken care of this!”
At the moment I didn’t have this clarity, but looking back I believe that the lie from the devil was about my value and respect. I should really stop using should statements.

Just Stop Thinking Like That

Just Stop Thinking Like That

“Just stop thinking like that.”Sound familiar?Ever shared that you’re struggling and got a cheap response from those you love and trust when asking for help?You are not alone.Feeling like a failure, not worthy, smart, strong, holy, brave, strong enough is...